Several years ago I remember being troubled by the lack of courtesy in our daily actions. I remember being faced with rude people who appeared not to have the time or gumption to treat people (and animals) with respect. Don’t get me wrong, I, too, occasionally showed my impatience and lack of courtesy in many things that I did – I sometimes cut people off when driving; I shouted obscenities (in silence) at people who moved too slowly; at times, I treated servers, wait people, and cashiers poorly; and the list goes on and on.
Thankfully my then teenage son, told me that I was rude and people deserved more courtesy and respect than I gave them. I took it to heart and remember making a conscious effort to add courtesy back into my life.
Everyone has a job to do – some people are not happy with their decisions to work at a certain job, but do so nonetheless. Especially in this economy! And we can make their tough jobs and days a little easier by smiling and acting politely. It takes so little to treat others as we would like to be treated – sounds biblical, eh? I am not a religious person, nor do I read the bible, but I do try treat others with courtesy.
As a 2010 Census Enumerator I have had doors slammed in my face and some people go out of their way to avoid me. I’m not sure why. I have a job to do, and I always smile and engage with others when I can. The few minutes that are spent to speak with your local census worker are so painless, while it takes more time (and the government’s money) to avoid participation.
Next time someone knocks on your door, calls you on the phone, cashiers for you, or serves you food, etc… – try to remember to smile and act politely. Remember they are human beings too, and your smile may just help them through their otherwise routine day!
